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Published in: Sexuality Research and Social Policy 3/2020

05-10-2019

“Not a Real Prostitute”: Narrative Imagination, Social Policy, and Care for Men who Sell Sex

Authors: Theresa Dyrvig Henriksen, Ditte Andersen, Lois Presser

Published in: Sexuality Research and Social Policy | Issue 3/2020

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Abstract

The dominant cultural narrative of sex-selling involves female sellers and male buyers, consistent with governing notions of sexual desire and sexual performance more generally. Likewise, needing and receiving care is conventionally coded as feminine. Analysis of semi-structured qualitative interviews with 21 cisgender male sex sellers in Denmark leads us to consider how storylines and discursive boundaries having to do with sex work, sexuality, gender, and care shape narrative imagination in ways that inhibit the participation of male sex sellers in programs that provide the kind of care they may need. Respondents described different experiences of and pathways into sex work. However, both respondents who enjoyed selling sex as well as respondents who suffered found it difficult to imagine themselves as participants in service-providing programs. Rather, they deemed programs designed to provide care and support to sex sellers the exclusive province of women. The paper clarifies the importance of cultivating narrative imagination among male sex sellers, policymakers, and care providers in order to develop and deliver more adequate policies and effective programs for male sex sellers in need of care.

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Footnotes
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We use the term “sex seller” as opposed to “sex worker” and “sex selling/selling sex” as opposed to “sex work.” This nomenclature accords with that of our interviewees who typically did not talk about themselves as sex workers, but simply referred to themselves as being paid to provide sexual services. None of the men had sex selling as their sole income and many resisted using the terms “sex work” and “sex workers” as they associated these terms with more professional and regular sex selling than their own.
 
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Escort services are defined as a type of prostitution where the client contacts the sex seller, often by calling a telephone number from a print or website ad, and arranging a meeting at a specific location for instance in the client’s home, or at a hotel or similar site.
 
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Metadata
Title
“Not a Real Prostitute”: Narrative Imagination, Social Policy, and Care for Men who Sell Sex
Authors
Theresa Dyrvig Henriksen
Ditte Andersen
Lois Presser
Publication date
05-10-2019
Publisher
Springer US
Published in
Sexuality Research and Social Policy / Issue 3/2020
Print ISSN: 1868-9884
Electronic ISSN: 1553-6610
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/s13178-019-00407-y

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