Introduction
Method
Approach
Concept of happiness
Outline of this paper
New age philosophy
Eclectic
Spiritual
Experiential
Holistic
Therapeutic
Counter current
New age advice
Become spiritual
It is typical of modern life that nature is set up to be random and chaotic. This is far from true (...). To bring God back, we have to follow new, even strange responses wherever they lead us. As one spiritual teacher wisely put it, “The material world is infinite, but it is a boring infinity. The really interesting infinity lies beyond (Chopra, 2001).”
Be authentic
I had an apartment in Cambridge that was filled with antiques and I gave very charming dinner parties. I had a Mercedes–Benz and a Triumph 500cc motorcycle and a Cessna 172 airplane and an MG sportscar and a sailboat and a bycicle. I vacationed in the Caribbean where I did scuba-diving. I was living the way a succesful bachelor professor is supposed to live in the American world of ‘he who makes it’. I wasn’t a genuine scholar, but I had gone through the whole academic trip. I had gotten my PhD; I was writing books...But what all this boils down to is that I was really a very good game player.
Know yourself
The transformation of the world is brought about by the transformation of oneself, because the self is the product and a part of the total process of human existence. To transform oneself, self-knowledge is essential; without knowing what you are, there is no basis for right thought, and without knowing yourself there cannot be transformation. One must know oneself as one is, not as one wishes to be, which is merely an ideal and therefore fictitious, unreal.
Connect to the world
It is time for the world to stop kidding itself, to wake up, to realize that the only problem of humanity is lack of love. Love breeds tolerance and tolerance breeds peace. Intolerance produces war and looks indifferently upon intolerable conditions. Love cannot be indifferent. It does not know how. The fastest way to get a place of love and concern is to see all human kind as your family. The fastest way to see all human kind as your family is to stop separating yourself.
Meditate
No matter which path you follow for meditation, the first and foremost task is to try to make the mind calm and quiet. If the mind is constantly roaming, if it is all the time a victim of merciless thoughts, then you will make no progress whatsoever. The mind has to be made calm and quiet so that when the light descends from above, you can be fully conscious of it. In your conscious observation and conscious acceptance of light, you will enter into a profound meditation and see the purification, transformation, and illumination of your life (Chinmoy, 1979).
Don’t drink your tea like someone who gulps down a cup of coffee during a workbreak. Drink your tea slowly and reverently, as if it is the axis on which the whole earth revolves—slowly, evenly, without rushing toward the future. Live the actual moment. Only this actual moment is life (Nhat Hanh, 1975).
Think positively
You see in great detail what it is that you want, and repeatedly affirm this picture with faith in the absolute power that is in all things, including yourself. You can picture yourself healthy, your business thriving, your sales quotas being met, your relationships healing, your house selling, finance coming your way or anything you desire. The key is to repeat these mental pictures until the truth of what you are affirming resonates within you without an ounce of doubt.
Take control
My interest has been to convince you that you must assume responsibility for being here, in this marvelous world, in this marvelous desert, in this marvelous time. I wanted to convince you that you must learn to make every act count, since you are going to be here for only a short while; in fact, too short for witnessing all the marvels of it.
Live healthily
Whatever we send out mentally or verbally will come back to us in like form (....). If we are willing to do the mental work, almost anything can be healed.
Live simply
When we appreciate how much we have, we feel the urge to pare down, get back to basics, and learn what is essential for happiness. We long to realize what’s really important. Is it important for you to work overtime to buy that new dining room or to attend Little League games? Perhaps you could refinish the table and chairs you now have and add some colorful cushions. These choices are part of simplifying our lives. Welcome them. They are part of the authentic journey (Ban Breathnach, 1995).
Follow your gut feelings
Throughout history, humans have always talked about the experience of gut feelings or hunches that have directed us at various times in the decisions we make in life. Only the mechanistic worldview discounted such experiences as illusion or hallucination or reduced them to mere social cues. Even in the face of this cultural disapproval, most of us have continued to use such feelings half-consciously; we just didn’t discuss them much. Only in recent decades has the power of intuition once again become more openly used and talked about in the West.